You must learn, patiense, focus and control which can be achieved through meditation. We would suggest reading Pagan Paths to show you the diffrent paths in paganisim, Wicca for the solitary practitionar, Raymond Bucklands Big blue book, Cassandra Easson, Kate West all of these are good starting Authors for new Seekers and the more advansed. A quick tip try and buy them through the new and second hand section via Amazon as they are cheaper than the list price.
Love, Light and Blessings
Gealwyne